My wife spanks me for discipline. I like to lean him over the back of a chair or across a table and use a hairbrush. So as you lay in bed tonight you can consider yourself very lucky that you're not on the receiving end of my cane and whatever other implements I choose to use. I have been caught wanking as well, my wife went mad pulled up by my ear put me over her knee pulled my trousers and underpants down and used a belt on my bottom. Is this comment inapropriate? Too bad, she even spanked me if I asked. After a few short minutes of kissing and stroking her breasts,she said I am ready. It keeps him on his toes. He will have started to squirm, but the smacks will have been given before any serious movement takes place.