How many wives secretly masturbate. I'm the first to admit that I'm a sexual person, so during this time I decided to take control and satisfy my own needs. We talk about porn and such. Masturbation tends to be private. My husband works graveyard, and sometimes I get lonely. Apes, horses and birds also do it. Enjoy it. I didn't quite know what it was but it felt nice. What Is the Mile High Club: I'm a big fan of mutual and set up times for him to 'catch' me.