Feel her orgasm. Invest at least three minutes of your total 15 in kissing. Read more articles from Lisa on Thought Catalog. I wish I could have orgasms as intense as my partners. It started with that pulsating feeling, then my head was spinning, my body shaking uncontrollably. Not only is this an important time-saver in your minute window, but it lets you combat any body-confidence issues. I injured my back once and had to take muscle relaxers. Some women are vocal, others not so much. Then I feel like I need you to do it again Some may also require the additional sensation of vaginal penetration to orgasm. An orgasm is a physical reflex, brought on through sexual stimulation, most commonly that of the clitoris, which is the most sensitive organ in women. Different people are stimulated by different sexual acts, but it really all comes back to the clitoris. I miss her.